we are in a wedding in september and the bride and groom have decided to seperately have their bachelor/bachelorette parties at myrtle beach. i am not going becasue i am pregnant!!! i am not going to the mom to a bunch of drunk girls. soooooo my husband knows this and what does he do, books his plane ticket anyways 2 months ago. without even consulting me, as far as i knew “we” weren’t going. so i tell him he’s eating the cost, because he is not leaving me here pregnant, working, taking care of our 3 year old. (we live 5 hours from any family, so i have no help) so he’s ok with that. anyways that money that would be spent on dining, alcohol, and accomidations can be put towards the baby. SOOOOOOO guess what, i find out last night, that his plane is leaving tommorrow, and he will be on it, and his grandma is giving him money to go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i haven’t spoke with him, he’s failed to tell me any of the plans as far as how long he’s gonna be gone or what
time he’s leaving. i’m am so infuriated i don’t even know what to do??!?!??!?! he knew this whole time he was going to go!!! like his gma giving him money to spend makes it better. it’s his cousin who is getting married, so i that is how her supplying is somewhat relevant. i don’t think he needs to be across the country while i am here pregannt by myself with our 3 year old, and he is beligerent the whole time, because NOT ONE single person that is going to be on this trip with him has children which equals a priority and responsibility which i guess my husband seems to be lacking!!!!!! am i am just being hormonal?? what should i do!?! to make him see how mad i am. right now i am not speaking to him AT ALL and he is acting like nothing is wrong.
it blows my mind that i am about to have another child with this man!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?! his work offers incentives for people who raise the most money (he is in sales) and he is at the top now, and the prize a trip to the Bahamas in the beginning of August. so what does he say, that we are going to the bahamas in the beginning of august!!!! LOLOLOLOLOL I am scheduled for a csection August 25 at 39 weeks, and that is if i make it that loing!!
im not going to the frickin BAHAMAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i told him he can go without me!!! take the girl he knocked up while he was in myrtle beach for a week without his wedding ring and problems.
oh with my first i had preterm labor, out of nowhere at 31 weeks, this pregnancy is high risk…..i have from the get go been going to the dr every 2 weeks. and on top of the preterm labor i now have a classical c section mark to go with it that is not helping matters, so not really “ONLY” 31 weeks……..gosh sorry so long….
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