He obvviously can’t accept it… He’s a bachelor type of guy.. Once he told me that if I ever get pregnant we should perform abortion… so should I tell him that I’m pregnant?
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Do you want to keep the child? If you do, he’ll have to pay child support. And don’t say that you won’t need the money. Believe me, kids are expensive. You will need the money. So you’re going to have to tell him.
And what’s this about you having to get an abortion? If he didn’t want a child, he should have taken precautions. He’s a big boy now. Tell him to act like a man and be responsible. He’s going to be a Daddy, and you’re not going to walk away and do this on your own.
just do it… or later he might know as well…
yes tell him!!!!!! how vould he help ou make one if he cant raise one…silly guys
are you soft in the head ,he is the first one you should tell and quick while there is still time to take alternative action maybe or talk about what colour the kiddie room should be,but maybe you should tie him to the chair first
If this is the type of guy he is what reason did you not use protection much less get involved with him?
How do you feel about the baby? He is the daddy so tell him, just be prepared for anything.
I don’t know how you feel about being pregnant and what your views are on abortion. If it was me, I would tell him, if he insists on me getting an abortion, then he isn’t worth it!
In the first place, why did you do that for all you know he doesn’t want you to get pregnant. Is he stupid enough to think that by doing that your putting your life at risk with that irresponsible guy!
He has to know but dont forgeet you make the decision at the end of it all. He should not push you to do something you dont want to even if he denies to take care of the baby. Remember, the baby is inocent and it would be great to have it. Take yourself for example, you were brought into this world and you are a great person.was it not a good choice for your parents to make to have you. God always has a way of taking care of his own. Who know, maybe the world has been waiting for your baby to be born in order to be the greatest president ever. Take Care.
Tell him,after all if he don’t want it you can always keep it and he will have to pay,like I do for the kid I NEVER wanted,but my stupid ex decided to stop using her pills.
Just tell him or there will be a great rift between you and him and he will resent you and the child.
you should tell him… he needs to know… and maybe he’s changed his mind since that last talk
yes tell him as soon as possible. my girlfriend was pregnant and did not tell me until after she had a miscarriage. that made me very upset and mad at her.
Sweet friend,
You must tell him. Try to win his heart by putting the love of child in his heart. It will be a chanin between you and your friend. Try to convince him. Be bold,courageous and truthful. Feature and winning are for you.
Dear tell him right away…caz if u delayed and den who knos the circumstances..never remain the same.
he may deny..or quit.
Tell him now,sum up courage.its ur life.
if he can make sex,den he should also understand about being
pregnant.
Yes, you should tell him. What you do about the pregnancy is your option legally. I personally don’t believe in abortion in consensual cases such as this, but that’s just my opinion. DO NOT, however, let him tell you what to do. By your question, it sounds as if you don’t want an abortion, and if you don’t then DO NOT GET ONE! Even people who believe in abortion will tell you that you need to be sure because it is a decision that you will live with the rest of your life. There’s always adoption, and many forms of adoption – you can choose the family and even keep in touch with the child. If you are too scared to tell him in person, then write a letter explaining that you are pregnant and what you have decided to do about it. If you have and keep the baby, he will be obligated to pay child support legally, and will have rights of visitation. He may say that he wants nothing to do with the child, and he may try to say it’s not his to avoid the responsibility that he obviously does not want. If this were the case, I’d be happy to raise my child alone than for it to be supported by a father that doesn’t want it. Your choice, but he does deserve the chance to know he has a child on the way.
I don’t know if you and your boyfriend used any protection or not but if you did not then you should have the child. If you want to keep the child the child that is great, if you do not want it you do NOT have to have an abortion you can always place the child up for adoption. There are some “parents” that are for an open adoption so you can watch your child grow if you have that desire.
If you have the child and keep it I hope you have his SSN or his name, address, phone #, place of employment and his moms contact info so you can get child support.
You should tell him that you are pregnant and let him decide what he wants to do and then follow up with further “force” (DNA test and child support) as you need.
i agree with donna coz if he was stupid enough not 2 use protection then it’s his fought, the question is will u beable 2 afford the child coz they ar very expensive i should know coz i have 4 brothers and 3 sisters my mother has had it big but now she lovin life coz she got her grandchildren running around her and she enjoying it, it depends if ur that kinds person.
plus sometime there a risk that u will not be able 2 have children if u have abortion
jus talk 2 him and if he doesn’t agree then move in with ur mother if it is his house if not then tellhim 2 get lost then sell ur home and move in with ur mother coz then u will have somebody 2 help u bring up ur baby and the money from the house will help u pay for the expences
if u need any more advice then mail me at cheeky_stacey_85@yahoo.co.uk and i’ll try 2 help that why we’re here as ur friends
This is really your decision. I think that you should tell him because he needs to know and he needs to own up to his resposibilities. He can’t make you have an abortion if you want to keep the baby. But he WILL have to pay child support if he decides not to stick around. Good luck.
tell him as soon as possible..and if he tells u to abort ur baby then don`t ever listen to him! be strong to prove to him that u can take care of ur baby by urself if he don`t want it..later on,he`ll realize how sad his life without you and his baby =D
Don’t tell him… tell me instead… I’d offer myself to you.. =)
If you don’t want to raise the baby PLEASE don’t have an abortion. email me and we can talk. privateadopt@yahoo.com
I am 27 and a teacher/therapist.
Don’t worry, I’m cool and I don’t judge.
I am looking to adopt, but I would also love to help a child live rather then be aborted.
who is the father if its not him why bother
well an abortion is the WORST thing that you could do. There are thousands of people that would love to adopt a baby from a beautiful girl like you. If he is the father than it is his RIGHT to know!!!!! You know the answer to this question already i think. I had a friend that had his girl friend get an abortion and it will haunt him till he dies!! What ever you do don’t haunt yourself with having an abortion! GOOD LUCK